How do you tow the fine line between sticking up for yourself and not talking back to a partner? For context, our firm has seemingly started making a paper trail for layoffs and I disagree with some of the emails that I have received. I want to respond in a way that covers my own ass. However, I don’t want to piss anyone off, especially if I have read the situation incorrectly.

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Now is not the time to be the sassy associate. Tread lightly. Very lightly.

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Think it largely depends on what the emails are about and your relationship with the partner. If the emails are a critique of your work product, it may be worth replying that you have questions about their feedback and setting up an in-person meeting to discuss. If the emails are more about firm protocols, consider referencing the firm’s policy if you believe you’re in the right and asking for additional clarification from the partner.

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I agree with Attorney 1. It definitely depends on your relationship with the particular partners and the context. I’m a 4th year associate and pick my battles but do counter when appropriate. In being assertive, I believe I’ve harnessed more respect and a collegial attitude from the managing partner. (Although I’ve had a few whoops moments lol). Before you send the response, wait an hour and come back to it. Make sure the tone is professional and consider how delicate many lawyers’ egos are.

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It's "toe," buddy.

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Touchy. On one hand, you want to own the negative feedback (nothing worse than someone who won’t acknowledge errors) but on the other you don’t want to give ammo to whoever is trying to lay a paper trail. I think a response that acknowledges and owns the negative feedback and that explains the rest can be well received if tactfully done. I’m afraid on this one the devil is in the details and without more context it’s hard to give better advice. Also food for thoughts, in this environment no one needs a paper trail to justify layoffs. Maybe some paranoia at play?

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