How long before you meet the parents? I met my boyfriend a year ago on bumble, his parents have come from India, and he wants me to meet them just for casual together. I'm feeling nervous, any sugg.?

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What are you nervous about? Ask your boyfriend for some tips on what topics to avoid (if there are any), avoid those topics and then be your normal self (assuming you are smart, respectful and kind). It will be fine!

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My SO and I have lived together 5 years and I never met his parents (they died over 10 years ago). He hasn’t met mine (both alive) either.

Two years and he’s never met my parents (they’re crazy).

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