How long is too long to know someone and to ghost/slow fade? I've been seeing someone casually for 6 months and we were friendly/friends before that for another 6 months. Feel like he's fading this past week but part of me also thinks he would be better than that and give me a proper conversation. Any experience or thoughts?

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If he wants something, he would have told you already. Don’t waste any more time.

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If you like him, fade him right back 200x harder to see if he passes the test of caring about you

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Eh my friend got ghosted by a guy she had been seeing for 6 months. It’s not about the time it’s about the quality of the person.

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If you see someone casually for six months...you’re “casual” to them. Easy come easy go.

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There’s no time period by which a jerk turns into a decent person. Believe them when they show who they are.

I wouldn’t stress about this. People suck. Let him fade and find better people to spend your valuable time with.

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