How long it took you to be friends with someone you had feelings for? Does it ever go back to normal?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

I find that being around them makes it harder

Related Posts

Wanting to leave at A2 for industry. I understand PA is good to stick out through atleast senior because it’s easier to move up in PA vs Industry but frankly I don’t even care. Cont.

like

Junior biglaw tax associate here. Considering an internal transfer vs lateral to NYC from a smaller market. Any firms in the v20 I should avoid/look into? I have pretty reasonable hours at my current firm and trying to avoid going to a sweatshop. Interested in international tax and hoping to avoid m&a. Firms I’m considering: Latham, Gibson, Sidley, Goodwin, Milbank. Thank you all!

like

Hi Fishes,
I am a senior infra developer with 5 years of experience. I am looking for job change. I have worked on private cloud infrastructure and have good knowledge on vmware tools like vRA, vRO, vCenter, vROPS, vRLI etc.
I have the basic understanding of devops tools and public cloud like azure, gcp, aws.

Can someone please refer me for a suitable role within their organization?

like

I’m Canadian and will cross the US border to do my H1B interview/ stamping. Can anyone tell me what I’d need to bring? I’m told it’s different from the consulate interviews

Anyone from deals, deal strategy, FDD or valuation teams Bangalore? Need help/referrals. Been trying for a long time now. Any help appreciated.

like

Do we know which consulting firm was contracted to build the IRS' Get My Payment tool?

Deciding if I should trust it with my SSN and personal info.... or if the gov't built it themselves.

likefunny

Anybody have experience navigating HR inside a big tech company? Specifically around reporting an abusive manager. Any tips or advice?

like

Are there any onsite opportunities for data analysts / data scientists ?

That moment when the 1st-year associate speaks up during a client meeting.

Post Photo
likefunny

I think my brother is an idiot when it comes to his dating life. He recently started dating someone that the whole family loves - really down to earth, great personality, educated, hot and has a career. I just found out my bro is cheating on her with his ex (who is toxic/manipulative, stole money from my mother & doesn’t have a job or trying to get one). From a personality, values & looks perspective, the new girlfriend is what every guy would dream of. Im jealous &wish I could date her instead

likefunny

My parents are jealous other peoples kids are getting married. They used the loog think bs on me today. I’m super furious 😒

like

Looking for UI/UX designers and react native developers who’d want to join our startup? promising food tech startup that hopes to change the way people visit restaurants. No cash, only equity, DM here

I’m interviewing for a client-side job and am fairly certain an offer will come. I can’t help but think the roles and responsibilities are way junior for my 15+ years experience, and (cont)

like

What would the salary range be at Slalom for a program manager in the Chicago area?

like
like

Hi,
Got an offer from jio
I wanted to check how good it is to join jio for longer time period?
What other things I should look for from jio than other companies?
Is it worth to join jio by leaving jpmc??

like

It’s after midnight. Time to start drinking the morning coffee

like

Moving from cpg marketing into tech product marketing. Looking for news outlets or channels to follow for trends and developments in the industry- thanks!

like

It's hip to be square

like

Additional Posts in LGBTQIA+ 🐠

Anyone in SF?

like

Any guys in Chicago free during the week to grab drinks? Early 30s male here looking to make new friends. Typically like dive bars and hang out LP, Old Town, Wicker, Logan Square, West Loop, River N.

like

Am a closeted Billy Elliott. Any guys here tried ballet or taking ballet classes? What’s your experience?

I feel like all the gays are going to Puerto Vallarta for New Years

likefunny

🐠 Need Advice - has anyone come out as 🏳️‍⚧️ at work (USA)? A friend is trying to navigate coming out (cont.)

like

Someone take me to lunch in the NY office tomorrow. Analyst here 🙇🏻

I’ve been seeing this guy for ~1 mo. I’m into him, but I don’t know how he feels. He never initiates text conversations or plans, but he’ll reply and hang when I ask. Is he just not that into me?

like

Started seeing someone during quarantine, told her I wanted to get to know her first but we slept 2gether pretty quickly & now I feel like it's expected. Don't see her as LTR, is it wrong to continue?

likefunny

Hi friends, I am looking for some advice. This guy who used to bully me for being gay in college just started as a contractor at my company. He used to call me names in the dinning hall and throw ...

like

I could be your next husband. Slide in my DMs to find out.

likefunny

How do you make friends as an adult (besides from work)? M31, recently relocated to a new city and every new gay guy I meet just wants to bang. When I tell them I’m also looking for friends, I don’t hear anything back. This is irl, not on Grindr..

likehelpful

MSP pride this week too. Anyone going to be out and about?

like

I'd be up to...but away that wknd :)

I feel like I can’t ever get out of my head. I workout daily, eat like a saint, try hard as possible to sleep well. On an SSRI. But I ran out of the office at 4 pm because my mind was racing. Tired

like

Any tall masculine looking gay guys here? Do you get approached by guys often?

funnylike

Any Sacramento peeps?

Partner and I have been talking about marriage and discussed how lgbt people don’t really have the same “rules” as straight people when it comes to weddings...what kinds of ways did you change things up in your wedding? Trying to think of some ideas.

like

anyone in atl this week

Deloitte friends, are you out at work?

like

Anyone going to be in Silicon Valley this week?

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Send download link to your phone

OR

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy.

Messaging rates may apply

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal