How many FET transfers did it take you to being pregnant?

So far 5 - 0

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You mean you have five failed transfers? I’ve only had one and waiting for results of my second but I assume it’ll fail because that’s what happens to people like me. I bet for most normal people it’s 1-3 max.

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3-0!! I’m a success at failure.

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Let's be optimistic! Lol if you are success at failure then what am I? I just wanted to sense check how many times on average coz clearly I am not hitting these probabilities the clinic been quoting

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I can’t help! I’m 1-0 and terrified for the next round (of failure). Lol

5-0… your luck has to turn on the next round! I’ve read the average is 6-9 attempts.

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Yeah…there is no way that 6-9 attempts is average assuming you’re transferring PGT tested embryos. For me it worked on attempt number two. Ive heard the rule of thumb is to have two embryos for every child you want, so logic would dictate an average of 1/2 success rate.

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4th worked (first three frozen untested; 4th was fresh)

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