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How many of you are doing back up care/day care/ child care vs managing children at home? I'm paranoid about entrusting someone outside my household with child care during the pandemic, my husband agrees as well. He's awesome and pitches in equally in everything! However, we are both so burned out. What's the popular vote here? What's your thoughts around this, pros and cons?

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