How many of you check your SO's phone?? Poll.

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Disagree D2. I check my husbands phone on the reg because he always forgets to tell me important shit like "hey, my mom is coming to visit on Saturday" until the day before, even if she texted him weeks before. Most recently, I didn't know my sister in law (his sister) had her baby last week until I checked his phone. He's an idiot savant.

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Yeah, depends on the relationship. If it's a question of trust, it is a problem and it's not right early in a relationship. For me, it's an administrative task so it's not the same. I don't want to check her emails--i just want to know our weekend plans.

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No I don't

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Don't have a SO

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If your are checking your SO's phone, you're either overly-paranoid or they've cheated before - either way, not a healthy relationship

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Sometimes I check my phone with my left hand. So I suppose that counts.

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Yes I check

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I'm using it right now for this post so you tell me.

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lol I also like to check his fishbowl to see what the investment banker asshats talk about.

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Ain't nobody got time for that, OP

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I check everyone else's SO phones! Creepy right?

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I check in front of him. Im not looking for anything but just bored of my own phone sometimes. I also browse Facebook through his phone coz I deactivated my account. Lol

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Check as in go through text messages? Doesn't sound like a healthy relationship if you feel the need to do that

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I used to. Because he was cheating and I was right. We are no longer together and I am a much happier person now.
P.s. I am not proud of myself buy it had to be done

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No... If you have those kind of trust issues your relationship is fucked

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What if they snap each other nudes

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I don't check his phone but I use it often. We both know each other's passwords and use each other's phone to turn on music, tv, security etc. we completely trust and love each other

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I didn't used to, but when things felt shady, I did and it turns out he was cheating. I don't think I can ever trust enough to not check their phone since that episode

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Shared calendar?

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There are serious trust issues if you're checking one another's phone. My SO has a thumb print password on my phone and I couldn't careless what she sees on it.

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BA1 why so upset? If you have nothing to hide it shouldn't bother you. There's a reason people like that check phones: they've probably been burned in the past or your behavior suggests something odd. Again, if you don't have anything to hide it shouldn't bother you

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