How many of you here think you are way too attractive?

Has anyone who uses online dating apps connect with someone, set up a first date, and then get cold feet/raincheck/reschedule on the day of the date? Idk how to stop doing this 🙈🙈🙈

Is it common expectation now that everyone barebacks and is on prep? 30M who is now single and everyone I talk to disappears once I tell them that I don't bottom raw in hookups. Not trying to end up single forever but wondering if I'm being unrealistic with standards. Generally prefer to keep things safe until we have some consistency / exclusivity but i guess I'm off?

Hi Everyone
I am planning to do a short bike ride today evening to Lonavala
Any F interested to accompany me?

It’s interesting to see conversations around age gap on this thread. I am 44F and get approached by younger guys who want to date older women. Most recently by 28M and he seems mature and level headed. Knows where he is and where he is going, doesn’t want kids, etc. Although our goals align, I am not able to come to terms with the age gap but he thinks we should give it a try. I would like to hear this group’s opinions on this. TIA

This guy I went out with has such amazing porcelain glowing skin. I was staring at his skin the whole time 🥵

For those who are actively dating, how’s it going?

Anybody having issues dating because the only people you ever see are clients or coworkers or your married bartender?

Dating a girl - been going great. Suddenly she is saying there’s too much going on in her life (her mum is ill, doing dental training) to go to the next level, but that I’m a great guy anyone would be lucky to bag etc. At the same time she says she wants to stay in touch. I said for her to tell me if she’s not interested and we can leave it - she told me she is interested but the timing is wrong. I said ok let’s leave it - she said it’s my choice (despite inertia from her).what to make of this?

Men of FB, how did you girlfriends / wives sex drive change with age?

Getting to be almost that time with X again

Currently going through divorce proceedings. I honestly don't want to date anyone right now but I have this fear that I'm already 28 and I'll never meet anyone good. I went on some apps and matched with some guys but I feel like they're all the same and I don't wana get to know anyone. But I'm also scared for my future.

Thought of moving in with my date. Searched nearly so many flats near Velachery, Guindy, KK Nager. Nobody were ready to lend a flat for unmarried couples. Like why? I don't really understand why Chennai is still backwards. I'm sure this wouldn't be the case with banglore.
Still searching and no luck :/

How do I politely hint at a guy I have just started seeing that he is moving to fast? We have only been seeing each other for a couple of weeks and not had any sort of exclusiveness discussions or anything but he is texting and expecting replies multiple times a day (I am currently on vacation away from the city we both live in), planning trips together in several months, letting me know how much he likes and misses me several times a day. I like him but I am starting to feel very overwhelmed.

How’s the dating scene in Austin? Any advice for a single 30 yr old Male who recently moved here?

I feel like a lot of straight guys would benefit from a woman friend reviewing their dating profiles to tell them which pictures to use.

28F looking to move to SD in the next 6 months from DC and wondering what dating in San Diego is like?

Have any of you actually met up and hooked up?

Best way to meet people in the Bay? Early 30’s. Been here a month and don’t know anyone.

Feeling bad for those guys who were constantly asking about hikes on this bowl 😂😂😂

Open opportunities in TCS for below mentioned skills:
1. Adobe Experience Manager.
2. Sitecore
3. React JS
4. Angular
5. Drupal
6. Java Microservices
8. Adobe Campaign

Experience: 2- 10 years
Locations: Chennai | Bangalore | Trivandrum | Kochi | Hyderabad | Mumbai | Bhubaneshwar | Kolkata | Delhi/NCR | Pune | Ahmedabad | Indore | Nagpur

Dm for referral.

I am interviewing for an AVP business data analyst in London, 2 YOE.

What benefits does citi offer and what salary can I expect / negotiate?

How is current Hybrid model in BNY Mellon & how will be hybrid model in next year ?

Against all the "open floor plan" odds, I got my own office. Anybody have decor recs? For post-covid19

Thanks for the peanuts EY 🙂

Do TCS blacklist if we accept the offer and didnt join?

Industry folks, have you worked with Trinity? Comparing bids for some portfolio strategy work and want to know how their work compares to others.

I wanna be a senator! I’m 24, I know you have to be 30. So where do I start!?

I'm considering pivoting to copywriting because that's the part of my role I'm best at -- a lot of the account management stuff is draining, but I can whip out social and marketing copy quickly & I enjoy it. Wondering if anyone has insight / leads on making the jump from accounts to the copy side when applying for jobs? 5 YOE, 3 in-agency with a mix of automotive and pharma + a side gig as a published author with muliple books (hoping that'll help on the creative / copy end?) Thank you!

Fishes,
Need suggestion
Im holding few offers, need to make decision
TCS as Assoc Consultant : 25 (incl everything)
Wipro as Architect : 24 (3.6 variable included)

Investem Banking,Product based company as Sr.Consultant : 24.00 FIXED ( 0 yo 6 lacs variable. But its subjective)

What do you feel ?

I myself have inclination towards product company, based on the interview and discussion happened. Never worked in product, so not sure about variable

YoE : 11Yrs
Skills : Azure Cloud Architect ,Core DevOps

Hi Friends ,

Is Siemens at Gurgaon Ifco Tower Siemens Advanta ?

Alphabet & Moonshots - typical salaries/offers? I am hoping for an offer from a moonshot here in the next week or so, and was wondering if anyone had data on how those relate to the usual Google offers, please. Thanks!

I have been a CCA medical coder for my hospital in Oregon for 8.5 years. I have been only been doing outpatient simple visit coding and my supervisors have basically stopped me and another coworker from advancing. We don't have any room for advancement and we are basically stuck.
Im nervous for reaching out to other companies to see if I can get a better offer and advance my career. Im nervous because I am a single mother of 3 and have been at my hospital for 14.5 years.
Any advice or tips ?

I really really want to get a foot massage but for some reason I feel bad getting one. Like the idea of paying someone just to rub my feet feels demeaning and no matter how much I tip, it won’t alleviate that feeling (totally different than when a guy I’m with does it lol). Anyone else feel that way about some kind of service you can pay for?

In a LT relationship that checks all the boxes, and my SO makes an obvious effort to make sure I feel appreciated. Problem is every time I try to do something special for them, I'm met with unenthusiastic comments or "you didn't have to do that". They don't make much effort to join my family events, and when there was a stressful event in their family they asked me to stay home and watch the pet while they went to visit. I was the only SO not there, and while they made it clear i wasn't at fault

I microwave my cereal. Are there any other elite full warmers out there? Righteous milk warmers? Or are you all filthy no warmers? This is extremely important.

It’s Friday. I am still sick with flu and sore throat. Given that alcohol can kill viruses, I should start chugging down some alcohol soon to kill those damn viruses.

Someone direct me to the plant bowl please. Searching for 'plant' did not work, and I know I've seen it before

I'm having trouble performing on a woman, but I'm totally fine performing on myself. Um, what can I do to fix this issue? Tbh, it's pretty embarrassing 😪

When I’ve my desk in standing desk mode, and I’m sitting on my chair and looking up at my screens, I feel like I’m looking up at god.

Hi all I need to vent. I’ve recently moved into a new apartment and from the beginning it was a nightmare (place wasn’t properly cleaned, person upstairs is ridiculously loud) I’m paying more than the average rent for the area (almost $3k after paying for parking and other fees) where average rent in this area is like 1800-2000 max. It’s supposed to be a nicer building and just have been so unhappy. Today though was my final straw. My $700 package was missing from (continued in the comments)

Stress really does trickle down .. my manager is getting annoying 🙄 and now I’m getting stressed 🙄

I loathe RFP response work

Kissing after a girl has gone down on you but before she’s cleaned her mouth - hot or not? I know some girls/guys are into that but others aren’t. Curious about the split

I think I’m anxious at work because of the fear of disappointing others.

I don’t understand why Japanese food has been so elevated in status compared to Chinese, Indian, Thai. It looks pretty but honestly is overall pretty bland.

I quit my job and hooked up with an ex coworker. That is all.