how many people are married here? how old when you got married? is your partner older or younger than you? suddenly feel I'm so old, 28, single.

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Married, 3 kids, 30 years old, bigger belly than I'd like, and the hair is getting thin. I swear I haven't even found out what I want to do yet.

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OP, don't rush into something because you feel you're "behind" or something. Marriage is supposed to last forever. Getting married once later in life certainly beats marrying the wrong person and getting divorced

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31, single AF

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My GF just read my post ^^ and now I'm also single AF...😑

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^in all fairness, I should have stated divorced at 31. Traded my ex in for the younger model 😘😂😘

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Married at 18, divorced at 25, remarried at 32. I guess 7 is my magic number. Will update you all at 39.

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Single AF indeed (25yo)

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I missed the memo that finding your soulmate in or prior to college is mandatory unless you want to be alone forever

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26, dating, not in any rush to put a ring on it

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26 been dating for 6 years. Guess I'm afraid of taking that leap.

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@OP, just my two cents but once you do get married, enjoy being a married couple for a while. Once you are past the honeymoon stages then you should think about kids. I am so happy that we waited 6 years before we had any. Marriage is hard, kids are hard, life is complicated, so just enjoy it.

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Married to the game. Thug life

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Almost 32, married at 23. Husband is 7 years older. 2 kids 👨‍👩‍👦‍👦 2 1/2 and 11 months.

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36 married 13 years, hubby 50 next spring, two kids, 10 and 3.

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32 & single. Previously married at 23 divorced at 30.

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Engaged. 34. Fiancé is 25. Twitter dogs and a big house.

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Trade in for upgrades are always nice. Hopefully you weren't taken to the cleaners in the process

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Married. Got married when I was 24 and my wife was 22.

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29, married at 27, no kids, no house, no dog, no cat (😔) husband is 34

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I thought I would be married and settled down by 27-28 for sure, but no. No sign of that happening yet unless I meet my soulmate/marry-mate tomorrow

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