How messy things could get? Didn’t like my body, did gastric bypass, lost plenty of weight. Got pregnant at a wrong time and broke up. He didn’t want to leave me but I thought it’s better for me to move on. Now what?

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Girl what do you mean now what…you 👏🏽keep👏🏽it moving👏🏽 you got this! Parenting is hard parenting while single is even HARDER but you will make it work—not sure what the surgery has to do with anything but just rely on any family/friends if possible, don’t be scared to ask for help whenever you need it, and coparent as amicably as possible.

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If you’re concerned about pregnancy risks from gastric bypass, then you need to talk to a doctor not fb.

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Well first off you should start learning how to appreciate yourself better and with regards to your pregnancy I think it’s best you consult a health care provider for help with planning before conception. I’m not one to conclude that something happened at the wrong time cause I believe everything happens for a reason, consider this a life test and if you can get past it you’d be more prepared for whatever nature has to bring on next. Hope this is helpful enough for you, hang in there. I’m sure you’ve got this 🤞💯

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