How often are you having sex? I’m in a relatively new relationship, and feel a subtle pressure to have sex every day (if not more — often morning and night.) I generally enjoy it, but it *is* time consuming, and I can’t help but feel stressed by it at times. Any tips for managing misbalanced libido? (Another factor: my partner is underemployed, while I’m working FT.)

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Im concerned that you’re living together in a new relationship? That’s risky

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Not living together, just have been spending most days together amidst the coronavirus times.

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But my partner and have been together 1.5 years and see other 2-3x a week. We have sex most of the time we see each other, but not always if one of us is tired or we’re super stuffed from a big meal

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Prior to the crisis basically ever day we saw each other (eg Thurs-Sunday typically but sometimes the whole week if he didn’t travel). Now it’s like once a week and mostly driven by me when I was the voracious one. I had an honest convo with my partner. Said it wasn’t him and he understood. Just talk to your partner

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But for advice, discuss it openly with your partner. Unfortunately, very very mismatched libidos May mean you’re not compatible. It’s a big factor in lifelong compatibility

Op-Twice a day is a lot. Are you male or female?

What is the norm for you? I’ve fluctuated and found that it depends on my partner. Some people are more enjoyable and oftentimes it decreases with time.

Share your thoughts with him.

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do it regularly for few months once the threshold level will reach sex will start taking a less priority. It’s happens with most consider it a short phase in relationship. It’s good to have frequent sex during early stage of relationship

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