How often do you and your partner have sex? Early mid 30s male couple asking :)

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2-3 times a month? Been together for a few years

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4x a week probably. Maybe more. Late 20s been together 2.5 years. M/F pan couple. Probably 2-3 times a week just us and 1-2 times a week with someone else.

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Been together for 5 years so not very often.

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Ten years and same age bracket. Pretty much never. Sorry to be the Debbie.

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1-2x per week?

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Additional detail: mid 30s, together for 6 years.

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Late 30s. Together 10+ years. Make sure to find time every week.

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Together 5 years. Male couple (both 29). We go on waves. Some times we’ll go 1-2 months without sex (maybe a handjob here and there) and then some other months we’ll do it 3-4 times a week or we’ll have a weekend where we have sex 8-10 times in 2 days (generally when we’re on vacation)

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Wow…the only reason why I want to be in a relationship is because I want the eggplant like everyday. But I guess not?

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The first year or two you do have sex that often

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A couple of times a year. We’ve been together 6 years.

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Mid 40s. Been together 10 years, average 1x per week.

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For those who don't do it often. Is it sex, or fooling around in general? Like oral or other things?

Are you open? Orndoyu both just have slowed sex drives (which isn't an issues just wondering).

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Fair fair. I'm the younger one in the relationship by a few years and I feel like my sex drive is much lower than my partners haha. I'm usually down to fool around in other ways but full on "sex" is sometimes so draining, which is why I asked.

But of course, sex isn't everything in a relationship. Happy that the love and romance are still there for you all :)

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Yaaaa we're working on it

34 here... we get worked up after we work out together, something about a ripe man gets us horned up. We go at it about 2 times a week. It's difficult for him to get off so usually I instigate

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