How often do you have fights and how long do you take to resolve them

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Hmmm rare. Maybe 1-2 disagreements per year and we resolve within the same day.

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Healthy arguments are fine but when it's about hurting your foundations , values then big red flag

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Recently, my spouse and I have been fighting more often than not. We usually resolve the same day.

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