How often do you see your significant other when you’re dating as an official couple?

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When we were dating early on, maybe 3-5 times a week. Typically she would be at my place all weekend. It eventually progressed to every day.

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crying in a long distance🥲

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That’s rough buddy. Good luck 🍀

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I'm currently sad I don't get to see my SO of 1 plus years more because I have my kids and he works a ton so it's just hard.

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Update: I asked for more time/consistency and we broke up a week later.

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Usually 1-2 nights during the week after work and every weekend - been dating 4 months

We live together so daily. Before that it was multiple times a week (basically every other day).

In a previous relationship when I was longish distance, it was like at least every 3 weeks which we both felt sad about so we broke up.

I haven't not seen her each day since our first date

How do you guys have so much time? I feel like 1-2 times during the week and 1 day of the weekend is already a lot for me. Maybe I am just used to being single. With the amount we both work and seeing friends/family i felt like that was pretty good until I read your responses 🙈

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