How often does your significant other kiss you? I feel like my girlfriend smothers me : /

How to politely tell my partner stop spending too much time on playing video games? It was my false at first. I introduced Zelda breathe of the wild to her and now, she is hooked. She even played game when we had the movie night. I chose the her movie style but she let me to watch it alone and silently turned on the game, and played it while pretended to watch the movie with me. That’s not fun at all. What should I do? Any advice please?

Are there any mothers here who voluntarily gave primary custody to the kids father? I love my children fiercely but tbh I don’t think I’m cut out to be a single parent. Family and friends tell me I’m a great mom but at the end of the day having them on my own is exhausting and I end up just either letting them do whatever they want Bc I don’t feel strong enough to set a limit about it, or yelling at them. They’re 4 and 7 for reference. Please constructive responses only. Thank you!

I ate one biscuit out of a big packet that belonged to my roommate and he said things like “it’s so tough to get these biscuits” etc. The thing is that I would have never said that to him. I’ve told him that as long as it’s in the kitchen, don’t ask me before eating. He also constantly keeps asking me to switch off the kitchen and bedroom lights. Is my being annoying justified?

People with kids, how much do you spend on daycare?

Any other lonely social workers in here? I mean a lot to some of the people on my caseload but that's about it. Don't have any family near me and it's hard to make friends with non-SW's mostly just because I'm too tired after work to want to do much. Do you spend most of your time alone or is your social time self care for you? Just feel like I don't have a support system!

What’s the best cadence for sending nurture emails? I’m looking to re-engage partners who haven’t worked with us in X amount of days. The series will be 7 emails and just wondering if anyone has seen more success with emails once a week vs every other week. I typically send nurture emails once a week but curious what success others have found breaking it up. TYIA!

I’m in my second long-term relationship (first was from age 16-20, he broke up with me). My current boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and I feel like it’s time to end things. However, I’ve never ended a long-term relationship and it feels legitimately impossible. Our lives and families are so intertwined and I just don’t know what to do. How did you end your long-term relationship? Advice?

Hoping this doesn’t turn controversial. Should I be teaching my young kids to read Quran in Arabic (so learn a new language just to read Quran but no value otherwise), or skip Arabic and have them read transliteration (so like Alhamdu lilahi) or third option to just read in English the translation where they will actually understand? I mean, I spend 100 dollars a week on a tutor to teach them Arabic. My parents spent thousands and I can barely read it now and prefer transliteration.thoughts?

Anyone else at home not sure what to do with their time? Have multiple calls today but can't seem to figure out what I want to do between them. Workload is much lesser since this is last week

Happy Halloween y’all!
I’m looking for some insight into the market for recent grads. It’s been a while since I’ve been a recent grad myself but my younger sibling just graduated from an ivy cum laude and has had no luck in her search for over 4 months. Is this normal? (For more context, she has a degree in economics, about a year of internship experience and is looking for a financial analyst role or something similar. She’s applied to roles through company sites, handshake, LinkedIn, indeed…)

Has anyone regretted their marriage and who they married? Please share experiences

Dating a teacher. He’s broke. He’s hot. He cares about his community. Dump him or keep him?

Has anyone used Toptal for job hunting? Their process seems time consuming so I want to know if it's worth it. Time is limited in my current season of life. Spouse and I both work and we have 2 littles at home. I'm miserable and have stagnated at my job and need a change.

Anyone have to retake their NIPT test? My results came back as insufficient quantify and I’m freaking out. I’m 11.5 weeks. Not a high BMI or anything so I’m worried something is wrong with my baby

How soon after marriage do guys start demanding kids? Asking for a friend

How do you know if you have good hygiene? my ex told me I don’t

This is my routine:
- I have curly hair, can only wash it once a week/put dry shampoo if needed
- I brush my teeth 2 times a day
- Wear deodorant / perfume every day (my way, and good girl) and shave off any hair (I did laser but still), as much as possible. Some days, I cannot keep up with shaving (especially if it won’t show)
- I wear pantyliners and change it once a day/ change panties once a day
- I shower my body every day

My cousin is in great shape physically and I know he could get through that part of basic training/boot camp but don't know if he could handle all the yelling because of past trauma he's been through. Thoughts / advice?

I've got some friends who work remote jobs, and every day I grow more jealous of them during my one-hour commute.

2 of my best friends who were dating for over 9 years just broke up and I feel like I’m going through the breakup with them as well. I’m sad I won’t get to hang out w/ both of them at the same time

Fishes!

What is the in hand compensation for UK onsite from TCS at level C2 IT Analyst? And how much can be saved in a month after all the living cost? Any idea from anyone?

Self-funding an EMBA(starting May 2021). Thinking of creating 529 fund for myself. Can I show this while filing taxes for 2020? Married filling jointly.

12+yrs PM Looking for 100% fully remote opportunity. Know of anyone hiring ?
Will pay 5k if selected.

Worked with top fortune 50 & 100 brands.
Managed upto 40 team members.
Government to startup experience.
Agile & Waterfall experience.

I’m a single dad looking to accommodate for my 5yr old in a world that wants to go back into the office :(

Open to Timezones:
Canada, Ontario Timezone EST (GMT-4)
Australian Timezone AEST (GMT+10)
Mexico CDMX (GMT-5)

Are bonuses (%) within FDD generally the same across Big4? Curious what standard % is for seniors and managers

A&M folks are you worried about attending the In person training in a couple of weeks given the rise in COVID cases? Any chance it gets postponed?

Hello all,

experience people please give me advice and suggestions for HR round in TCS.

Does anyone have experience working for a ALSP? How does compensation work (pay and benefits)? Are you an employee or technically an IC? Do you have billable requirements like at a firm? How do you think it prepared you to potentially move in house? I'm currently at a firm but thinking of taking a position with an ALSP but my goal is to go in house.

Do all roles require team match? If not, which roles would not require team match?

A quick question, do salaries really depends on project budget or experience basis especially in MNC

Hi Fishes,

I was working on one of the project which got over and its been 2 weeks i have been moved to new project where i am going through KT,last Friday i resigned from my position..i don't really want to work on this project as the tech stack is old,i am asking for early release but Hr and manager wants to retain me..i told that i don't want to stay but they are not releasing me,what should i do?

please suggest..

What’s a good CPE subscription for CPAs? Looking for a good variety of courses. I work in the Life Sciences industry at a start up. (Company will pay so the cost is not too important)
Thanks!!

Any Healthcare Management members who are non clinical support in this group?

What are the top questions you get about big law work over Thanksgiving? Mine is never actually about my work and always some variation of "if you work that much how will you ever get married." Flying home this weekend so bring on the wine!

Thinking of impromptu going to work from Bueno Aires in a few weeks. Things to consider/neighborhoods to stay in? I also don’t speak Spanish nor have I been

Do Starwood reservations eventually come over onto Marriott after you combine? Mine still haven’t...

Hi fishes,

I have been recently promoted as L4 Associate advisor in SPS team at Amazon.

What would the the package for a L4?

Hi fishes. I have an offer from BofA for senior analyst (Data Science). The interviewer said I'll be working on marketing analytics. Can any existing data science fishes in BofA tell me what to expect in in terms of learning and working on ML? 3Yoe Data Scientist.

My fit bit showed me that I’m sleeping less than 4.5 hours every night. Which is pretty accurate from when I go to sleep to when I wake up. Gotta love being a lawyer

Looking for a girl who wants to be a good mom. Now accepting applications.

Sadness.
Dan Wieden passed away. To those that don’t know, he is the reason we “Just do it”!

I have ptsd and it sucks. Not all the time, but man have I been going through something rough.