How often if at all do you go on solo international trips? I love traveling but my friends either don’t have the time or money to go. Thoughts?

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30 year old, I usually travel solo for at least a few days a year. Same reason, plus I have oddball taste in destinations and am fairly introverted so i enjoy getting to plan my solo time. I don’t really look to meet new people when I travel so my solo Europe trips don’t involve clubbing etc, but I love love love getting to sightsee on my own schedule. I found Eastern Europe and SE Asia to be the most fun (and cost-neutral) to be solo.

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Same boat! A lot of my trips are solo because my friends can't commit or afford to go with. I like traveling at my own pace, doing the things I want to do, and it's liberating. I'm also an introvert, and it's perfect me time. It's a form of self-care for me - time to refocus on myself, and I always meet other solo travelers along the way. Plus, as a solo traveler it's easier to meet people when you're by yourself vs in a unit.

I go to EU twice a year alone. Italy was amazing, but my base was Florence this last time. Much safer and quieter there- but has a great train station which zips you to Rome in an hour or so. France is my all time favorite. It's just magical every single visit. Switzerland next. If you wait on people, you'll never do anything. I keep the invite open- if friends want to meet me over there, but yeah...Now is the time. Use your head and you'll be fine!

Remember not to tell random people where you're staying or that you're alone (when ppl pry, I say I'm meeting friends), don't drink other than a glass at lunch maybe or with ppl you really know, request a rooms near the elevator (so there's a higher chance you'll be heard or seen, if something goes wrong), contact family or trusted friend often while over there, go enjoy life!

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This! In the past year there have been too many news stories about girls going missing abroad. To be fair most of us here are older and can afford more secure accommodation than college backpackers, but you should still be on alert. Never EVER tell anyone you're alone. Even in more "safe" destinations such as major EU cities.

Otherwise, go for it! Be safe and enjoy.

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Every year I try somewhere new by myself. One of my biggest accomplishments is going somewhere solo I didn't speak the language and coming out with some of the best experiences of my life.

Solo traveling isn't for everyone, but I recommend to all. There are plenty of ways to have interactions without traveling with a group of people.

Some advice I would say don't limit yourself to doing something solo overseas, if you're a bit nervous, try a larger city other than yours for a long weekend within your own country, this will help you see how you'll adjust by yourself how you manage your time and the feeling lonely piece. Use this as your gage and decide where to go next from there.

Adding a couple of days by yourself before or after a planned trip is something I do, that way I get some alone time, but also don't have to do everything by myself (because some things are more fun with friends or family).

Also, while pub crawls are a social way to connect to people, there's plenty of other ways to interact with people. I like to join walking tours in the cities I go to (you can usually find free ones), cooking classes (my favorite to do), city tours or day tours, there's usually other solo travels or groups that are willing to chat.

I'd say whatever route you choose, just do it. if you hate it never do it again, if you love it continue your adventures next year! Good luck, be safe and have fun!!

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Traveling alone was truly the best decision I ever made. I chose Paris because it was safe and has many English speakers, and I had a phenomenal time. I loved being able to see what I wanted, when I wanted, and spend as long as I wanted at the museums. I also met friend’s form all over the world who were fellow solo travelers. Do it'

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I traveled solo to Thailand for 2 weeks and it was so amazing! Highly recommend Thailand (Koh Phagnan or Samui) for solo travelers :) I personally went to get a scuba dive certification so that allowed me to meet people

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Agree with everything KPMG1 said. I’ve been all over the world traveling solo. I’m pretty introverted too but I find staying at hostels (not party ones) is a nice balance of being around other people and being completely solo and lonely. I’m 26 - hostels aren’t just for college age kids People are there if you want to socialize, or you can just chill by yourself if you want to. That’s the joy of traveling solo. You can do whatever you want to do and don’t have to worry about pleasing anyone other than yourself.

There are a ton of blogs out there about solo female travel that I found pretty helpful. It’s really common and I’ve met solo female travelers pretty much everywhere I’ve been. I’ve never once felt I was in danger. Just be smart and read up on common tourist scams before you arrive at your destination.

Safe travels ✈️

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I love solo traveling. I’ve done it in the past and recommend it if you’re contemplating. I’m also introverted but I learned that when I’m gone for a few days I do want some social interaction so it forces me to talk to others I meet. Traveling alone allows you the freedom to do whatever you want, when you want, and even talk to whomever you want. It’s unbelievably freeing. I wish I could still do it but it’s harder now with kids. Go and enjoy!

Yes! Same for me (I also tend to want to travel to more off the beaten path places as well). It can be really rewarding and empowering to travel solo. Another option I’ve used a couple of times when I wanted to go somewhere I didn’t feel comfortable traveling by myself is to go with a tour group - I’ve done a few trips with G Adventures and enjoyed them.

I've been to a lot of places alone. Be smart, but don't let a lack of companionship prevent you from going.

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