How picky are you? My family hates that I’m very picky about everything but it’s just the way I am. (Ex dating, food, things, etc)

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Picky about everything except your employer, it seems


Who does?


“Just the way I am” is an excuse to avoid self reflection


You mean having standards?

I guess it’s the same thing so yes.

I mean I won’t drink cheap wine or eat cheap fast food

Hard to say. I’m fairly definite in what I like, so maybe? Only my sister can give me gifts that I actually would have chosen myself. Other people can’t really buy me clothes that I like, etc.

Food and weather. I won’t go outside if it’s too cold. Also, sushi and spicy food are a no for me.

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