How to deal with aging parents when living in another state? I visit when I can but now in airport waiting to leave, feeling guilt and deep sadness.

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First, that it's a natural feeling. I live 4 states away from my older parents and understand. But recognize that your parents, as all parents so, want the best for you and want you to be successful and to do well in life. Communicate with them often and honestly. Visit when you can but remember they love you and want the best for you, even if it means there is a physical distance.

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I live in a different country altogether. I completely understand. One or two visits a year is never enough. I feel guilty about it all the time

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Not an option WM. SO is not mobile

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I moved to be closer to parents. In our line of work we can live anywhere. Why not live where your loved ones are?

That’s rough. Alt weekends are a great thing in this line of work but recognize your SO may not love that idea. Our priorities evolve as we age, sounds like you and your SO need to re-evaluate the ones in front of you. You can always find another job. You only get one shot with your parents.

I feel guilty that I don’t visit more and I feel like my dad will pass in the next year or two. I struggle wanting to live life (I.e traveling) rather than going home all the time. 32 and single and I didn’t start doing these things until recently. I also struggle with depression. You aren’t alone. I also thought about moving closer, but held off for another year for my career.

It never feels like I’m doing the "right” thing

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