How to effectively search for a new job while struggling mentally? I feel inadequate, don’t feel like the work I’ve been doing is valuable, and am not a good networker...and I think I have been (cont)

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1. Plan for a 1-2 week vacation a month from now.

2. Use this time to go to a therapy session, organize/strategize on how much you need to save to have minimum 4 months expenses Incase you quit when it’s unbearable

3. Figure out your goals, a timeline, and activities you need to do to get to where you want to.

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...depressed for a few years and have definitely struggled with disordered eating. I’ve been applying but I haven’t had much luck and when I have gotten far in interview processes I haven’t gotten an offer...I feel like I’m stuck and can’t get out of my current role.

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