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How to get my MIL and mother to converse more with each other. I’m tired of being a middleman (middle woman)

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Be careful what you wish for. When my mother and MIL converse (i.e. gossip), there is always trouble. I'd keep them as far away from each other as possible.

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Lol! That’s good to know

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Why do they need to talk to each other? Mine never did (one is passed now). What would happen if you just stopped playing messenger?

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Mine also don’t talk. They don’t need to

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Do they need to talk?

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Then this makes me feel better. Thanks KPMG 1!

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Why do they need to converse? Mine don’t and everyone gets along great

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