How to get over guilt of quitting? Great project and team but got a great offer

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Remember your currently great project will eventually end and your team will be dispersed. Your next project could be terrible. And we’re all replaceable cogs in the wheel- no one will be offended or hurt if you leave. I mean that in an encouraging way- you have nothing to feel guilty about!

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Don’t feel guilt, if they’re truly a great team they will be happy that you have a great offer somewhere.

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Remember it’s Deloitte. This stuff is transactional. Don’t ever think Deloitte doesn’t view it this way.

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Not be guilty in the first place

Take care of yourself and your career. First and foremost. Never look back.

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If your team member had a great offer in front of them, would you want them to turn it down to stay on your project?

Do what matters to you as priority. People will understand.

By not having guilt in the first place.

You and your career should be on top priority! Though it sounds like a selfish move but they see you as a business...

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