How to navigate a FWB relationship? I have no feelings for him but I want to meet at least once a week bc the bedroom side is good. Like very good. But somehow I feel weird that I am the only one reaching out.

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If it’s truly FWB don’t mind and hit him up when you need him. Sounds like he doesn’t need it as often as you or doesn’t care - both of which I think is fair game for something casual.

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Ok I don’t wanna come off as too needy but I really just want it for the benefit. Thanks for responding!

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