How to politely reject the previous offer letter after taking the counter offer letter?

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Just ghost them.
Give recruiters their own medicine.


Be ethical, if you promised joining so join. Ultimately it's manners and ethics that mattering


Dude the answer lies in the question itself "politely"
If you don't want to proceed with them that's fine no one can force!! Simply drop a mail that "thanks for considering me for the role but ai wont be able to go ahead with the offer as I am set to join else where!"
That's it


Avoid lame excuses and directly get to the pt....and give it an unfazed closure


It’s always good to inform recruiter than ghosting. Send an email that you wouldn’t be joining for obvious reasons and you are letting them in advance so they can look for someone else. They may send back an angry email but that’s ok.

It will give them few extra days find another resource.


Thank them for the offer,
Tell them unfortunately you won't be able to join
Tell them you find a more suitable job/ whatever the reason
Tell them best luck to find the suitable candidate
And do this asap


I still remember last year on my day of joining Hr from FIS Global, Wipro and Publis sapient were continuously calling me if I am joining or not. I didn't picked up their call. It was fun moment.Never in my entire life I have felt so wanted. 🤣


Drop an email to hr if u want salary hike . Stating the reason why u r good fit .

If u dnt want to join just give xyz lame excuse. Which is hard to fill in


Lame exuse like city , work location , or some policy abt medical like these u can point out n excuse urself


You can just say, after thanking them for the process and for accepting you, that after a lot of thought and discussion with management, you have decided not to explore this opportunity any more.


Drop them a clear mail stating the exact reason for not accepting the offer. If it's money, let them know. There is no need to provide any lame excuses. The world is very small, at least for working professionals you never know when you cross path again.


Thank you for offering me the position of <Position Name>.

After careful consideration, I regret I must decline your offer as I have accepted another opportunity that is more in line with my career goals. I greatly appreciate the time and effort that you invested in interviewing me.


Dear Company,

Thank you for your interest in my profile for Job Role. I regret to tell you that you are no longer being considered.

However, I encourage you to continue to visit my LinkedIn profile and feel jealous that you have lost such a professional match with all set of desired skills and latest industry knowledge, whose profile being continually watched by majority of recruitment agencies and MNCs.

I appreciate the time you took to get rejected and wish you success in finding your next slave.

Yours Faithfully
Lalchi Aadmi


Write an email atleast few days before the joining date, and state the information in a polite manner. If you don't want further communication, just mention in the end that you don't want any communication in this regard. It works !


Just say thank you so much for considering me but I am no longer interested in this position at your company

Mail them Oops! Something went wrong!

Don't need to be polite in everything you do in life

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