How was your experience coming off the BCP? I just stopped a couple of weeks ago to get my body ready to have an baby soon-ish and I’m pretty nervous.

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I’m fine, my skin isn’t 😞 (get hormonal acne)

Came off a few months ago and my body looks/feels very different already (gained weight and my boobs shrunk 😣) But on the plus side my libido is up 🤷‍♀️

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