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Hi fishes
I was supposed to have my Amazon Round 3 interview in the first week of May but the interviewer didn't join. My recruiter didn't reply for a few days and then rescheduled it.
Even in this rescheduled interview, my interviewer didn't join. This time my recruiter joined and said she'll reschedule my interview.
She still hasn't done that even after a follow up.
Is this common? Is this some kind of patience test?
I have no clue but I'm really frustrated at this point.
Please suggest
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Would recommend trying both individual therapy and couples therapy. It really helps. Other than that, maybe you guys just need alone time? Schedule dates every week with something fun planned. If someone can take care of baby for a week (parents, in laws) go for a vacation or staycation just the two of you? The first year of parenting is hard and exhausting, and takes a toll on marriage. Hang in there
Thanks so much. Will try therapy. He has usually been all 'yeah whatever' when I bring it up, so I'm not sure how committed he will be to it. But def an avenue to pursue.
Consulting wrecks marriages. Either of you need to quit so sanity can prevail
You two need to talk. What’s he feeling/thinking? How’s he experiencing your relationship now, w a child? Get some time together to talk.
We have tried, but conversations always devolve into fights/tangential arguments. He feels empty and disconnected too. I genuinely feel, most days, like I do not know him anymore , let alone love him
Throwing this out there - children wreck marriages too. Sleep deprivation, lack of alone/personal/ date time, differing views on how to tackle things.
If you were not able to have a conversation by yourselves than I recommend to talk to marriage counselor and see how it turns out to be. Sometimes a third person's objective opinion in a relationship might help to see things in a different perspective. I know you are a young mother but try taking vacations if possible.
Hate to be the Debbie downer, but if he has already checked out it may be time to cut your losses and move on. Life is short - don’t be miserable
You can try giving him space and checking out yourself a bit too - ie lowering your expectations of him completely and making peace with getting nothing from him. Perhaps it’s a phase and he will get through it and starts getting re-engaged. If not, you’ll know it’s something more lasting and can decide then.
This might be TMI but I would highly suggest trying to connect physically more often. Even if it’s not very genuine or vulnerable at first, it makes a huge difference for men especially to have that connection, leading to deeper mental and emotional connection. Just my 2 cents from a similar experience
Thank you all. I am so grateful for the advice. We are going to try couple's counseling, and I'm definitely looking for ways to amp up the physical connection while mentally recalibrating my expectations. I'm not ready to give up on us yet, nor is he. Thank you for your support ❤️