I am almost done with my first trimester and I’m scared to announce that I am pregnant to EY as there have been talks of layoffs before June 30! Should I wait longer or just go ahead and rip off the bandaid? Been stressing about this a lot , thinking people will judge me for getting pregnant 😢. Please help!!

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Congrats!! I think if anything, bring pregnant would give them pause on letting you go. Discrimination and all that.

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Thank you pwc1. Yes! It’s just the covid thing has been making companies lay off ruthlessly that got me worried!

Don’t be scared girl, congratulations on your pregnancy!! That is the best thing that can happen to a woman :) it that makes you feel better, they can’t let you go just because you’re pregnant. That is called discrimination and they won’t risk it. Rest assured and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy! :)

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Thank you for this girls!! This has really helped me and put things in a perspective 😊

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Rip off the bandaid. I am currently out on my third leave with the firm, and no one has ever been anything but supportive.

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I am pregnant with #2 & am in talks to go up for Partner next year. EY has been nothing but supportive during my previous & current pregnancy. Congrats & don’t be scared to announce!

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Thank you SM1!! Congrats to you too!! EY has been very supportive with my major life changes so far, was a bit worried that this is the biggest milestone so far 😊

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