I am overly worried that my bf didn't call. Literally, he just told me he loved me, was looking forward to talking tonight, but stopped responding to messages in the afternoon...95% chance he just fell asleep?

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Beware of relationships that cause anxiety

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How did you tell the difference between relationships that cause anxiety, and being an overall neurotic person?

he could be super busy at work? try calling?

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Haha he was fine...just took an accidental long nap. Silly me for overthinking

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Are u worried that he got in an accident or out cheating?

Definitely not on cheating, he's not that type of person, and I would trust him to at least break up with me first

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