I am burnt out beyond measure. Used to survive tough phases with long hours but just can’t anymore. Having trouble sleeping, enjoying anything else or even focusing on tasks even if it is just to get done.

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I’m with you. It’s 4:45pm in NY and I just ate breakfast. Lunch break? What’s that?

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I tell this to everyone - open yourself to work via LinkedIn, brush up your resume, always keep looking, even when you start a new job, keep looking, it allows you to determine what's in demand skill-wise, who's hiring, what are the market rates etc. I know you're busy and anything work-related is probably the last thing you want to spend the precious little free time you have, but even one application a day will help, that's 5 minutes of searching or even browsing through the daily saved search alerts. Big 4 is a machine that builds in staff turnover in their work models and expectations and never goes too short of having new blood available so treat it as a mercenary gig that it is. Don't expect the senior leadership to do you a solid, that's rare.

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I have slept 13 hours across the past three nights. Now being told to work this weekend for a Sunday PM update and then work on client site the Monday holiday.

I’m tired of every case telling me “this is rare, and there’s nothing we can do about it.” It’s every time, and I’m at the point where I’m now shirking tasks and being openly combative with managers and leadership. It’s absolute BS

Sending you affirmation from my other little trench in hell

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Therapy helps!!

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Agree with everything C1 said. I have the hour blocked on a weekly basis for teletherapy and have a 30 min “prep” block beforehand. Not that prep is necessary, but I find it helps me go into the session a little more clear headed if I’m not running directly from another meeting/task. Highly suggest it!

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I am 💯 here with you, burnt out, no end in sight. I have a 2-week vacation planned in July and it’s all I can do to make it there. My birthday is next week and I haven’t planned anything. I haven’t even planned my vacation — 2 weeks, who knows where TF I’m even going. I feel like I don’t have many real friends anymore. I am drained, also openly combative with my boss at times, but overworked and underpaid. I see my friends in other lines of work who seem to just go about their ho-hum lives — clock in, clock out, enjoy all the free time. What even is free time? I could go on, I’ll spare you all. Therapy does help, but I know I require actual life changes. *sigh* Could it be that WFH created more burnout? 🤷‍♀️

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Idk I’m beyond mentally fatigued

I really wish I could power through

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If you can afford to, quit your job and chill out for a while. Allow your mind & body to heal from burnout.

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C2 - while I love WFH and am the biggest supporter of it, I think it fundamentally changed how a lot of industries work, mainly in that it truly eliminated any sense of balance. I’m in biglaw, and while I’d always come home and log back on for a few hours, there was never this expectation that I’m sitting at home on my laptop waiting for someone to email me. But seems that a lot of people in power positions think that’s the status quo. At least for me, just b/c I worked more during COVID when we *literally* had nothing else to do (and b/c the market was crashing and I’m in a transactional practice), doesn’t mean it needs to stay this way.

All to say, yes definitely, I think WFH makes breaking out of burnout that much harder now

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they are my only support and source of happiness although I wish I could do more for them, like, idk give them my undivided attention

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