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I am extra sad and lonely today. I wish I can just be treated to a nice date by a nice man. Is that too much to ask for. My life is just work and home I’m sick of it...

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So this may get me killed, but maybe treat yourself to a nice time. Go to a great restaurant. Dress up a bit. Put yourself together. Add an activity solo. Engage with people around you while out. Start adding things for yourself, and you’d be surprised who you attract just by living a bit.

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And those days happen. Just don’t lean into the sad days. Let them pass and make plans for something fun as soon as possible. Try meet-up. I got divorced in my 30’s and lived on the opposite side of the country from my friends and family. I started choosing random meetup groups and activities and built a small circle quickly. Some will never be close friends but they were fun to go out with

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Sorry to be that guy: Who are you that you should be treated to a nice date by a nice man? Have you considered being a nice woman and treating a man to a nice date?

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She’s owed it because… woman?

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Don't put to much thought into it. Find an escape, like the gym. Let the universe work for you and things will fall into place. I am a high believer in not chasing things and letting them come to you. When the time is right it will happen.

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I moved like an hour away from family after a tough breakup and forced myself to meet new people. I joined meetup groups, clubs anything to meet and interact with people. It’s way harder once you are out of school but not impossible just look for things you like and meet people that have similar interest, NYC is huge so best of luck

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Diddo. Let’s start a lonely hearts club

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Did I write this?? I did recently go on a nice date and there were no sparks. I realized my time is too valuable to waste on someone I’m not compatible enough w. Quality over quantity 😘

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I’m in NY btw, if anyone wants to take a chance tonight and meet message me privately. Even friends!

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I’m in NJ. Unfortunately FB won’t let me dm you so feel free to reach out

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Message me if you want someone to chat. zi am F.

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I tried dating before but for most of them, there were no sparks. So my lesson, dating is not a good escapade except with a guy you at least like.

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Tbh I never thought about it this way. I should be.

I feel the same way OP. But don’t let it get you down; be patient, put yourself out there, and things will happen. Now is also the perfect time to work on yourself if there’s stuff you gotta move on from, or become more mature in. We’ve all got stuff we have to work on, nobody’s perfect.

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