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i am in a relationship with this guy we recently met but the thing is he is not ready to contribute financially to the relationship not that i am complaning but he tells me all the time he has money but i pay all the bills idk what to do .

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Sit down with him and ask him why he won't contribute. You're both mature adults and should have a sense of each other's financial comfort. This is a 3rd date conversation.

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I hope you are not already living together!

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He comes to my apartment over the weekend

Wait why are you paying the bills if you met recently?

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