I am in late 20 and stuck in a project where there are late hours work.My parents are supportive and each day i feel what i am doing i dont talk to them they bring food for me and i feel like i am going in depression.Soon i am getting married and because of this nature my mom is tensed that ki Tera aage kya hoga.I am have become irritated person juggling hard to manage my personal n professional life.Waha pe manager khush nhi Yaha ghar waale nhi.Resign maardo kya thode din peaceful life jeena chahti hu

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I don't know if my suggestion is the best ....but what I feel is


Anyway you're thinking of resigning, so why don't you try out keeping things sorted.
Start logging in at Time, log off at time...don't work beyond working hours. Say I will prioritise this thing tomorrow...This way you would feel more confident and who knows you might start having work life balance as well. Many a times we are too afraid and Manager leads take advantage of that thing. Saying No is important hence start doing it. Take leaves whenever you don't feel like working...at max what will happen, they will point out or give average rating....You can analyse the situation and resign or switch accordingly. So it's both ways in favour of you.

If you quit job now, don't even trying this...this fear would always be there with you....be brave, speak up for yourself, your well being and health. When you start taking care of yourself, the others feel pressure and you can dominate....that's how it works ...thodi badmashi dena start kijiye madam...itna seriously kaam karoge to jindgi kab jeeyoge....hamara dar hai jo hamein itna Dara ke rakhta hai ki hamein apni job jindgi se badhi lagne lagti hai ...this is what I feel...you can take this if it helps you. Himmat kijiye thoda, apne liye stand Lena shuru kijiye....jyada se jyada kya hoga, doosri job dhundhni pdegi? Jab previous employers ne kuchh dekh kar hire Kiya tha, next bhi vo dekhega hi na ...itna worthless to nahi ho tum jitna khud ko samjh rakha hai..... you're more than that.... Live life on your own terms.

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medical leave..take a break.. don't resign

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Don’t think of resign.

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Bhai itnaa kya sochne kaa... Company switch karle agar Project se release nai kar rahe...

PVT sector mein job karne ka yahi toh fyada hai.

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Get your medical check up done and take medical counselling before this thing goes more bad.

Along with that you can try joining some yoga/meditation classes online/nearby. Own your health, only you can take care of your health, no one else can.

Try talking to your old time friends, go out with them. It surely helps

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Choose your mental peace and just be honest to your work. Your job is not to make the manager happy, not at least at the cost of yourself. If you are already thinking of resigning, you are already half way out. Just look out when the time is ripe

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Apart from work do something that interests you, you will feel better

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Thats a usual case of many project these days, start giving interviews one day you will have an offer then resign

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I was in the same situation.. i just absconded from the job.. i felt my mental health is more important then a job and paise toh kamate hi rahenge.. please share the company name in DM or here so that we know to not join the company

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Dude relax, why r u getting depressed due to just late work. It is ok if they get u food. U can’t spend time with them everyday, that is also fine.
Look at it this way, u r getting married and ur parents are growing old. You have to work hard and reach a point where u can provide and make their lives comfortable
Once you become manager, u will have more flexibility as well to manage ur time

Take sabbatical leave for 3 months.. come back refreshed.. take health issue seriously…

Aap toh jyada hi load le gaye mohtarma.

Ye WFH ka bhi effect ho sakta h irritation, ki kaam karte time koi beech me aaye ya bole ya koi noise aaye toh lagta hoga why the hell they are doing this.

Break lo thoda, ghumk aao kahin.
Vipasna try kro jyada lag rha h toh.
Office jaya kro beech beech me.

Life is good , doll !
Live it like anything.
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Resign maar do baad ki baad me dekhi jaegi

Ja Simran ja ji le apni zindagi.. take leave for a week or two and go for some outing with family.

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