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Enthusiast
Serious points:
1. Family ko samjhao ki 2-3 saal minimum job karlu independent ban jau financially thoda sa fir karenge. Shaadi se pehle ladki ko independent sahi se banna chahiye aisa ek potrayal karo
Cousins ko apne side mein le lo, zaroorat padhe to thoda ghus dila do cousin ko (ek do treat mein man bhi jayenge)- Ek do saal aramse ti k jayega
2. Masters (MBA, MS) yesab ka exams likho r bata do ki aur degree lene ki ichaa hain tumhe r shaadi ke baad yesab padhai difficult ho jayega to abhi nahi man hain
3. Smart khelo - Bolo AC ban jaungi (ek promotion baad) to achaa hike milta ZS mein tab arranged marriage mein rishta sahi bhi ayega. To 2 saal wait karke agar achaa ladka mil sakta then kyun nahi
Sarcastic points:
- Idhar itne desperate launde ke posts nahi dikh raha tumhe, abhi koi rishta offer kar dega behen
- ZS mein hi boyfriend dhoond lo r fir usi bahane arrange marriage ka ye family drama ko chup kara sakti ho
Enthusiast
Zs4 bicholiye ki angoothi lekar hi jaayega 😂
31 F here, sharing a personal experience for samaj seva
If you're planning to go the arranged route, start looking early, I've been looking for last 4.5 yrs (maybe COVID slowed it further but that's just the last 2 years) . Overall the market has gotten very small for arranged and if you're choosy like me then it's becoming really difficult to find'the one'
Not right now ....but yes start early!
I ll also echo on these points, I am a male. I got married last year, after searching for 3 yrs.
just want to add one point- people now a days has lots of option even for arranged marriage matrimonial and all. They talk for 2-3 weeks then say jama nahi, then start search again and it continues.
The mind set of not getting marry is the trouble thing. If you know ultimately you have to settle down then just start looking out, talk to parents ask their wishes for groom/bride and then search.
Conversation Starter
I am 26 and I am worried ki mere ghar Wali shadi k liye force krna shuru kyu nhi kr rhe
Conversation Starter
Haha... hope so. (For all intent and purposes, sare comments fun k liye tha)
Wow yaar gharwaalon se baat karne ka time mill jaata hai tumhe 😂 ek kaam karo wo pending deck pe dhyaan do - dimaag kharab hone lagega toh ye sab automatically tune out ho jaayega
Enthusiast
Dw, by 25 you’ll get used to it😂😂😂😂😂😂
Office opening is the only solution I see 🥲
No not masters, itne paise nahi hai, and naa hi itna dimag ki scholarship mile🥲
No chance! 27-28 se phle kon karta hai yrr shadi
Didn’t you tell… itni jaldi shadi nahi karni.
You can easily stretch it to 26-27, I hope you might be okay with shadi by then.
Aaj ka embarrassment kal ka enjoyment ho sakta hai😂
Don’t worry OP. No one is going to force you into anything. It’s going to be your decision in the end. If you feel you need sometime to be ok with this. Talk to your mother regarding this. Tell her what you want to achieve in life before you get married. Be realistic while you do so. Take sometime maybe 3-4 years and meanwhile figure out what sort of person you wish to be with for the rest of your life. There is no right or wrong while choosing a partner.
Enthusiast
For sure 😂😂
Need me some partying soon
Community Builder
To krlo fir
Maze hai aapke
Save this Post and revisit after 10 years ... You will understand everything after that
24 M here (just turned 24), similar discussions going around at my place as well :/
Enthusiast
I blame work from home for this. We are constantly in front of their eyes so ofcourse yeh sab hi hoga 🤦🏻♀️
25 ka hote hote masters karne nikal jaana. Na rehna hoga ghar mein, na hogi shadi ki baatein.
Enthusiast
That's the plan 😂
Enthusiast
Sometimes parents take upon themselves to get you laid. I hope you see the light at the end of the tunnel. Figure of speech? Who knows... You'll see
Enthusiast
Marriage really makes parents change stance so fast. The other day my mom literally asked me if I "had someone"... and I was like huh ?? That was allowed ? Are u actually asking me ? 😂
24M here, same things are going at my home!
My reaction to them (parents) is 27 se phle bilkul nhi kruga chahe samne alia bhatt ka bhi rishta le aao
Sirf bol hi rhe ho beta.. pighal jaoge
OP - be an opportunist here… Y don’t you say yes… and just keep some strict criteria, like age of d guy shud be dis and salary. 24F here, I have done d same, on matrimonial site from past couple of months and have talked to only one guy so far who met d criteria … and if I don’t vibe with him I wouldn’t marry him
But look on d bright side, I am able to meet new ppl, and my parents don’t have problem with dat anymore 😅😅😅
Ab rone se kya faida … bhagwan ne buddhi di hai inhi sab kamo k lie 🤓
So I have a thought - why don’t you marry me? I’m single and ready to mingle :)
Single ladki dikhi nahi ki... 😂😂
I am 25.5 M
I am too much worried ki mere ghar wale ladki dekhna start kyu nahi kr rahe..
I want to get married and begin my life with better half. Need to plan future according to her as well.
My parents are not understanding that it will really take time to get a good match and someone with whom I can vibe.
Enthusiast
Haha yes I can understand the awkward part, I just somehow assumed it might be easier for guys