I am thinking of taking a break from work due to my depression. But really worried about the consequences on my immigration status. I am on L1 visa and the firm has just filed my green card application. I want to take a break and continue to stay in the US. Is this possible with either Short term disability or FMLA?

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Talk to an attorney. Getting paid is tricky on a work visa. But good luck with your health.

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Definitely a great question for a lawyer. Regardless, on STD you will still be employed however not being paid by the firm. You will be paid by insurance company so long as they approve the claim.

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