I am vaxxed and my partner is not. We broke up for a stretch of time and I received mine during that time. Am I the AITA for not revealing my status? I feel like it's my personal business just as his decision to not get it is his.

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I would not be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t get vaxxed. This would be a thick red line for me

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A1, I mean you could also say you just hate some people of different religions or medical statuses because they don’t get the vax. Kind of generalizing to say they all are selfish and have no respect for others. Seems like your the intolerant one?

If you feel like you have to hide something like this from them honestly not sure this is a relationship you want

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“Am I the AITA” lol

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It’s going to come up sooner or later, when you want to go somewhere you need to be vaxed for. And his decision not to be vaxed is not his personal business, he needs to disclose that to people when applicable so they can know what precautions to take or know if he’s allowed in certain spaces

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Yep

Covid is ruining people for real.

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I wouldn’t keep it from them, but it is and always will be your decision to make.

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Huh?

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What’s AITA? Why would you need to hide the fact that you’re vaccinated? Do you live in a part of town where people harass you if you wear a mask?

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Am I the as***le

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No need for you to reveal if you don’t want to.

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Your body your choice

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Respect his choice as he respects yours (and privacy). But also - hope you don’t have to attend his funeral. Good luck!

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It sounds like he’s doing this by choice and not because of a medical reason or something so that would make him TA. Boy bye.

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He’s compromising his health which comprises yours. If we can ask partners for STD tests, why is asking for a proven covid vaccine such a hot button issue? We have politicized covid-19 beyond belief.

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Yes, you're TA for implicitly endorsing a recklessly selfish decision that will extend the hellscape we've been in for years and risk the lives of strangers

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