I appreciate that someone plus size was on Love is Blind this season and yet it wasn't the focus the whole time. Just a regular woman falling in love with a regular man 🥰 it would have been better without the mention at the beginning but only once is a record

I’m 25, great savings and capital available and love to travel but lack friends who can afford or rather desire to travel… so hard to find traveling friends these days

those u r staying in hometown with parents and single in there early 20s...

how you guys manged staying in home this long..around 2+ year..

sometimes I had some arguments with father and feelings like need to go office locations.. don't want to stay here..
like whenever something happens the next thought is next day go to pune...

When do you decide to become official girlfriend / boyfriend? How do you know ?

I (M25) have been together with my gf (F22) for 18 months - about 6 months we started to get in the habit of not resolving after fights. At this point, I know I like her but also am aware that she is probably not the one (unless we both change a lot). I am not sure what to do? How to weigh out the decision?

An in-law is in a failing marriage. Her spouse has been extremely crude to her and her kid for several years now to the point where she feels hopeless in getting the love feels she wants and is miserable.

My wife had the idea of me showing the in-law type of love I’ve shown to her (my wife), because she claims the in-law has appreciated what I’ve done for her so far (I haven’t heard such appreciation, however) and the in-law could really use the boost to her self-worth and self-esteem.

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Wow! I guess wasn't paying enough attention to the renting crisis as I should have been. I have been trying to help my daughter find her first apartment and I'm not sure she's going to be able to go anywhere any time soon!

Best self-care tips for dealing with loneliness/sadness this time of year? This is my first Christmas without my mom and it just feels like nothing will ever be the same again 😭. If you’ve lost a parent can you give me advice on getting through the holidays? Being a parentalish figure to my students is both healing and heartbreaking.

I don’t speak w/ my sister often. I asked what she wanted for Christmas, and she immediately came back with 3 things for her baby totaling $140 in a way that seemed entitled that I would just get it regardless of budget. How do I balance not being cheap and also being disciplined w/ money?

I tried out booking a stand up comedy gig and I had the very painful realization that people find me terribly unfunny. Big respect to all the comedians out there who actually manage to get a laugh out of people

Who uses Plickers? Thoughts? Are the kids required to have a computer? What alternatives have you used that don’t use a computer?

Poll: For those of you who went to M7 schools for your MBA, if you were single during this time - did you find your husband/wife here? Or did many of your peers?

Just found out I’m pregnant!! The father and I have only been dating for about two months😬 any advise for a first time mom? Or advise on how to navigate this while in a new relationship?

I know this bowl seems to be all photos 😍 but serious question for all you hard-working, king-hours dog owners out there... do you ever feel guilty about how much you're working and leaving your pup at home alone? How do you get over that guilt? Do you use doggie daycare every day or just a few times a week? Do rely on a roommate or SO to help? I'm a single lady and would LOVE to get a pup this year but am fighting the guilty feelings, so any advice would be much appreciated!

Pray for India 🙏 🇮🇳
The challenges are immense and everyone is doing everything they can. Let's stop the blame and come together to survive and succeed together.

The worst part of living so far, it's the constant feeling of helplessness that the distance creates. I was born here in the USA, but my heart is always with you grandma. 😭😭😭
I miss you always. I worry about you. I love you.

Just found out we're having twins! :) Any advice from moms of multiples?

My marriage is struggling and we have to pack up the kids and fake it till we make it with my in laws for most of their Christmas break. I don't want a divorce but things are not good, and it's hard to pretend they are even in front of the kids. Looking for advice I guess, or just a kind word. Really don't want the in-laws finding out and trying to put their two cents in, and neither does she.

A reminder: use the slow times to catch up on life, rather than wiling away the hours sitting at your desk waiting for emails to come in. This last week was my slowest in years, but used it to clean and organize my place, vehicle, and get the nursery ready for our first child. Time well spent.

Heading towards my first (and hopefully last) divorce. I'm resentful of my career because I feel like it was a huge contributing factor to the failure of my marriage.

One of my friends had a breakdown because I am more successful and she is intimidated that I am friends with her boyfriend (we were friends before she came along). Should I try to save the friendship?

Can anyone tell me how to invest in gold or silver? I'm going to sell my home and need a profitable and somewhat safe method to invest the money.

How long of a commute would you consider to be too long? First year associate trying to balance convenience with living more frugally to save up some more money.

Hey recruiters and professionals, I set up a coffee chat with a colleague on the FP&A team at my company for later this week. These are the topics I plan to cover: their journey to the company, challenges the team is facing/what a junior analyst would face, what skills I should be working on, and who I should be connecting with to land a role on the team. Question to the audience, what specific questions should I be asking to get a better understanding of the team/make a good first impression?

Is there a firm that does a lot of consulting work for hospitals in Texas Medical Center (MD Anderson, Texas Children's etc.)?

Can anyone share their Chartis group experience? What’s the culture? WLB? Perks, things you hate, etc, recruiting process

Klick Health Toronto put out a couple of openings. Any referrals ready to help ?

Would love to work on healthcare strategy projects within China - anyone have ideas on firms that are doing this type or work? Or have any advice on how I can seek this out?

Can anyone refer me in HCL.

Hey Fishes,


I cleared all rounds in PWC.
Now my HR going to discuss about expectations. What should I quote to the HR?

CCTC: 6.6
YOE: 2
Tech stack: Cyber Security

Request you to help.

Is IFS hiring? How is the group structured, are there roles that solely focus on recruiting, some on event planning etc?

Hi Fishes,

I am working as a JL6 employee (8 years of IT exp) in Infy with an approx CTC of 17.5 lpa (including allowances). I have a got a verbal offer from TCS for Rapid Automation Lead (C3A band) in the CoE team with 50% hike on my current CTC. Though I have asked for 60% hike, HR said she will get back to me on my ask. Now, there is a possibility that Infy might initiate UK visa for me in the upcoming months which would be ICT visa only. Just wanted your thoughts on TCS' work culture etc.

A reminder: use the slow times to catch up on life, rather than wiling away the hours sitting at your desk waiting for emails to come in. This last week was my slowest in years, but used it to clean and organize my place, vehicle, and get the nursery ready for our first child. Time well spent.

When should we start the on boarding process? Immediately after we receive mail from Accenture or 2 weeks prior to our doj in Accenture is fine?

Guys > 32, why do you think you're single?

New 🐟 here! Currently make $150k, wife makes $50k. I’m an immigrant and came to the US with almost no money. Wife is a citizen but grew up poor. Neither of us really knows how to budget / plan for the future. So far I’ve just been reading articles on the internet and trying to follow general advice.

E.g. Rent and utilities is about 26% of take home.
15% goes to debt payments.
Savings about 25%.

Should I get a financial planner? How should I go about this? Idk why I’m stressed

What day did you get laid off? I feel like layoffs always happen on a Tuesday.

R there any layoffs in ibm ?

Hey, does anyone uses confluence? If so, on average, how many Jira tickets do you clear in a day or week? What is your goal?