I came out clubbing on Saturday with my friends 3 males, I am female. I got wasteddddd, and something happened in the club that has never happened to me before - at least 3 girls came to me and asked me if I was safe and if I needed help coming back home. A) Great to see women protecting other women and faith restored in society but B) what the heck was I doing or my friends doing that the other girls felt this way? 😵‍💫

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Seeing one drunk girl with 3 guys at a club all hanging around her can feel like an unsafe situation if you didn't know them previously tbh

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Few years ago I went to a concert with friends and their spouses. My friends wife got hammered and passed out, faced down in my friends laps. None of us were acting really wild, and we even wrapped her in a blanket. But multiple women and a few guys came over to ask if she needed anything.

I think it’s mostly just people looking out for one another, which is a good thing.

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It is a very good thing and I am glad there are nice people out there wanted to help if needed

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People are much more open in helping nowadays. I remember a time when I was hanging out with a female friend (also wasted) and people intervened and asked whether we knew each other, where we were going etc (no offence from my side as point was to be safe).

Glad you had a fun time and enjoyed yourself at least!

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