I can’t do this job anymore. I hate the fact that I’m an immigrant.

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Hang in there! Same boat!

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That sucks, I hope you find something soon and feel better!

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I know what u mean. But sometimes we can get tunnel visioned when in a bad situation. There’s actually a lot more things you can do and do for yourself. DM me if you need help

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Thank you so much, you’re right. I am being approached for interviews but I’m not proactively applying bc I’m so drained mentally at my current job. Im not performing at the same level since im not as motivated as I used to be. Feeling singled out by management.

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On visa too and recently switched job! Still in the honeymoon period but it seems better for me

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Glad you were able to switch jobs! Wishing you good luck and happiness in your new stint.

I’m sorry you feel that way OP. Sending hugs and positive vibes your way.

Curious if your statements are related?

I am so sorry you had to go through all of that, and I’m so glad you could land your next gig! Many congratulations and I truly hope you flourish personally and professionally in this next chapter of your life. Just hoping I can make it over the next 2 months. I’m counting down days until October 1st. I feel so helpless.

I wasn't able to land any offers in the country where I went to uni, sucked a lot of the confidence out of me but I guess we gotta play the cards we got.

Regardless, it blows. Way too many hurdles for us to secure visas/PRs.

Hope you're doing alright dude.

Definitely is not. I am realizing that now after a year of constant abuse. I’m going to continue therapy, not giving up on that. I’m just losing the will to survive over the next 2 months.

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