I can't help but feel like shit about myself when I see my friends lot more successful than me, and sometimes I've found myself outright being jealous and almost not liking being around them. I know everyone is running their own race and everything, and I dont want to have these negative thoughts. They f* with my head and I end up feeling horrible.

How can I prevent myself from having these negative feelings or deal with them in a better way?

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