I can’t stop instastalking my ex and his new bf through my finsta. We dated for 4 months, and it’s been almost 5 months since we broke it off. Parted as “friends” but haven’t talked since the breakup. I’ve tried dating other guys but not feeling it. Wtf.

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Block them babe. Cold turkey is hard but it may just work

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Unfollow and see if it helps

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Would you consider deleting Instagram? If not, more time will likely heal your wound

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I went through a rough breakup back in June, and one of the best things I've done is blocking my ex on Instagram and Facebook. She's private on Insta, so I blocked her on FB. I unblocked her once in August and found out she had a new gf within a month of our breakup. I realized it wasn't worth it to keep putting myself through that. It's hard to resist checking Insta, but block them and don't let yourself unblock. It takes time, but it will get easier.

As for dating other people, if you aren't feeling it, don't pressure yourself to date. Focus on meeting people in a non-dating context, exploring new hobbies / interests, etc. Eventually you will be ready to date again, but if you aren't feeling it then don't force it. I know it's so hard - sending you lots of encouragement.

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Why did it not work?

He said “I think this is developing more into a friendship and we are too different”. But I think there was more to the story.

What is it about him that you can’t find in the other guys?

Tbh I don’t want him back, I just have a hard time letting go because I was the one who was left

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What's a finsta?

Secret Insta but stalker works too 😂 A place for our sins

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U need to unfollow and remove them from your followers. Especially for the finsta. It hurts but otherwise you will check everything.

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