I cheated on my girlfriend because I got scared of commitment we broke up and I feel completely numb inside about basically everything in my life right now. I don’t want to get back with her but I love her and I miss her. Idk where my heads at at all because I can’t feel normally

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Some therapy may do you good OP! Good luck with this. Keep your head up and leave her alone until you know what you want/need.

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Thanks fam

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hoe yourself out on some dating apps

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No please don’t. Have had enough of toxic people there. OP go to therapy

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Well, doesn’t sound surprising the emotional state you’re in, and you don’t know where your head is at. This is not the time for rational decision making of any kind…you’ve gone through a relationship breakdown, which is already very upsetting, but to add to it, it was driven by deception, which you knowingly instigated, so you have guilt as well as loss.

Like the other person in this thread said, this is a pretty good thing to take to a therapist. If you have a regular MD, perhaps you can ask for a referral.

Be prepared to do some thinking on what drove you to, a) be scared, and b) act out and destroy something you valued.

It isn’t likely to recover your relationship with her but it will set you up to be prepared and hopefully more relaxed the next time you find someone you could love.

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OP take time to yourself. I hope you find peace.

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Thanks 🐠 fam

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