I dated a lady for a few months, then she broke it off cauz she wasn't feeling it. That was 9months ago.
We became friends, talking regularly and having fun. However since I posted some cosy pictures of a friend and i on IG, she's been cold didnt reply to our conversation thread for two weeks. So I sent her another message to check on her and she was very short and distant with me.
I am really confused and don't know what's going with her and how to handle it.

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This sometimes happens with people we dated in the past. It sounds like she’s distancing herself for whatever reason. At the end of the day you can’t control what she does but if you want to keep the friendship I guess you could ask her if you did anything to upset her (maybe something else is causing this) and give her the space she needs.

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