I decided to leave my SO of 5 years after getting physical with me. I have gotten most of things out from the apartment (lived together), but we leased a car together recently and not sure how to approach it. Have asked SO what they want to do about the car (either SO/me keeping it and making payments) but no response. Should I take the vehicle?

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Hey congrats. I’m sorry that’s happened to you. Leave the car. Don’t give any reason to interact. Even if you have to pay the payments get out of that situation.

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Leave the car. Stop making the payments. The repo man will take care of it.

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Unfortunately, if you allow the car to be repossessed you will have a really tough time obtaining a car loan in the future. Hard lesson to learn, but never co sign anything for anyone.

I'm sorry you are going through this 🤗

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Do you have access to the legal plan at work? If so, consult about the lease.

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OP, you would have chosen the legal plan during benefits enrollment we just had. It's $16 a month.

I would say, take the car since you’ll be making payments. However, if SO comes to get it, don’t fight for the car. Let it go and then stop making payments.

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I thought PWC will go for every single penny

Are you both named on the lease?

I would explore options to terminate the lease and let them repo the car from him as necessary.

Hey OP how are you doing? Thinking of you today hope you’re doing ok.

I’m so glad to hear it. Stay strong. All people deserve a safe existence.

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