I deleted my dating apps for a while - is it rude to come back to previous matches who had reached out and explain I was off for a bit?

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I mean, there's no risk at all. I'd ignore your message and assume you're coming back because your main choice didn't work out.

However, you should try and see what happens

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I’ve done that before. Some guys are okay with it. Some guys aren’t. Good luck.

If you’re honest about it I don’t see why not. Just say you deleted the app because you were too busy but just redownloaded it recently

Met my current gf this way, I was on right after a breakup and around holiday time. Fast forward 6 months, rematch and here we are. Unless it was a weird exchange, there’s no price list or stigma, just do it.

Nah shit happens just be honest

When I do this, men typically don’t respond. But when men do this, I respond. I don’t provide any detail though. I just pick up wherever the conversation ended as if I didn’t disappear for weeks or months lol.

So I guess it just depends on the person… and the approach lol. But if they’re still on the app, then obviously they haven’t found their person. Sooo, go for it! No harm in trying.

It’s entirely okay. If they respond, then great. If they don’t, then they’re probably not understanding anyway. I full delete and remake tinder every couple weeks when I’m overwhelmed by it. The guys I’ve enjoyed talking with usually rematch me & are down to pick up where we left off

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