I don't know if I'm unhappy with my job, or if my husband's stress about his job is always bringing me down, literally to a depressive state.

How would I go about figuring the root of my problems??

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Maybe try therapy?

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It could be both. But what helps me is taking out a journal and just writing out my feelings. And then the why might come out naturally as you’re venting in your journal haha.

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Oh man. I my husband went through 2 very stressful jobs and finally job 3 is enjoyable and challenging (in a good way) and our household energy is so much better. I still have my seasonal depression related to this job (usually happens around the end of summer when I finally slow down) but it’s not an every day long lasting thing anymore.

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what is the catch here? What do u guys suggest?

Is there any catch, what should I prefer?

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