OP great start with the coffee and hand holding! So proud of you! My advice next would be to go to marriage counseling. Maybe she's crying because she thinks it's over, but maybe she wants things back to the way they were 5 years ago too. As long as you are both willing to try, you can get your happy marriage back. Counseling/therapy just makes it a little easier and gives you guidance. Please try it! I know you can be happy in your relationship again. 💪🏽❤
OP: its so heart touching. She still loves you!!!😍 May God help you to be a strong loving n a patient man for your wifey.
OP: i pray the very best for you and kids.
She doesn't love you anyway
Awww look at our rolex and xuemei bonding here 😍
Just wanted to let you know, I still think about this thread and pray for you. Wishing you enough.
So glad to hear! I had shared this thread with my wife back in the day and she just asked me last night what was going on with it. I'll have good news to share with her :).
I just kept waiting to hear from you! I am so glad you worked out! Best of luck, we are ruting for you!
Love is tying to work it out even when life gets tough and you both want to give up. Keep moving! Keep going! Keep showing love and helping one another. It is worth it! I promise. No, it is not easy. My marriage is tough too, but it can pay dividends. Marriage is not about finding the right person, it is about being the right person. I have hope for you brother. Don't give up. It can be repaired and you both can experience joy in your marriage again. :)
That's wonderful news! Continue putting energy into your marriage - enjoy the good times, hang on tight and stay strong during the bad times. Don't be afraid to call a time-out or ask for help if you see a pattern developing that you don't like.Thoughts and prayers with you and your family always! ❤️🌷~Xuemei
I agree with Xuemei here. Sounds like you need to talk to her. These feelings are normal, i have periods of time when i absolutely detest my SO. Dont wanna sleep with him, but then turns out that's just hormonal and human nature. I come back wanting him even more every time. Just tell her what you sre going thru cuz im pretty sure she might be suspectin something worse by now. Women are very intuitive to behavioral changes and assume the worst
Nooo ... Don't go the vacation route. You'll spend money and have high expectations. Recipe for disappointment for both of you. Start slow, like you were dating. First coffee, then dinner, then Netflix and chill. It will feel awkward before it feels comfortable again.
^ i second u D1. Scared n very sad😢OP: dont file for divorce through end of may. Please dont be so hard on urself.
Rooting for you guys. One day at a time, one loving act at a time. You guys got this. 🌷
I cried reading your update. I'm rooting for you. I want to believe love can last.
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