I (f/28) have been dating women exclusively for the last 7-8 yrs and identify as lesbian. I don’t know how it happened but I think I am into a guy I met? Anyone else ever go through this? I’m confused lol

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Sometimes it just comes down to the person, not the “gender”. Follow what you feel, you don’t need to alter who you are. You define yourself, not your relationships

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kinsey scale. just say you are queer.

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You can be into both or more!!

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Of course you’re right. More trying to understand how/if others have incorporated what I consider a late realization into their lives and self-view. Being gay is a pretty big part of my life/persona atm so not sure how to navigate a potentially new part of my identity. Almost feeling like I am coming out all over again

Embrace the spectrum my friend!! -28f bi

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I’m trying 😅

Same but M/30. Been a gold star gay. Now obsessed with the mystery that is the vajeen lol

Im having this problem now too… it’s helpful to see others deal with this issue too.

Go for it.

I did lol

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Don’t get hung up on a label. I’m bi (M) but married a long time (happily) to a woman.

Totally right. Couple others mentioned this too. I don’t need to label anything. Why put myself in a box

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