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I feel hopeless on my project and I cry regularly as soon as I hang up at least one call a day. (Woo work from home!)

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sending good vibes, feeling the same about some of mine right now

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Are you me? 🥺 They say things get better...

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I’m sure you’re doing the best you can with your current bandwidth. Try to be patient with yourself. Force yourself to take note of the things you’ve done well (instead of ruminating over mistakes or agonizing over things that haven’t happened yet). Schedule a vacation if you can. Hang in there!

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Thank you ❤️

All projects come to an end and it won't be forever - this too shall pass. Talk to your manager on the team and get some feedback about what you're doing well and what you can do better, and perhaps mention you're struggling a bit at the moment and see if they have any suggestions. I'm sure it's not going as bad as you think. Also, try and schedule in some nice activities to reward yourself for getting through each task or each day, and give yourself some time out.

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Talked to someone else on my project and they feel the same way. Misery loves company

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