I feel like I don't deserve the promotion to manager. I feel like I got here only because I talk up my accomplishment. And now that I'm at a turning point, I'm self-sabotaging and doing a bad job to prove that I'm not worth it. Why am I like this....

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Sounds like you have some self esteem issues. Let's dig a little deeper on this...

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Donald trump didn’t deserve to become the president but he did. Chances are, you deserve it more than you think. You are just being too hard on yourself

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Maybe you really don't want to be a manager? It's totally ok not to want to have more responsibility (especially if it's not commensurate with authority)

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