I feel like I'll have a harder time finding a compatible black man to be with because I'm agnostic/non-religious and I genuinely can't remember the last time I met a non-Christian BM. Religion isn't a dealbreaker for me, but I don't want to be pressured into converting and don't my kids to be raised Christian. I've dated WM before but I miss the culture connection.

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They want Christian women because they want “submit”

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C’mon M1; bringing that back again?

Almost all the BM I’ve come across dating wise are agnostic. I’ve found quite the opposite amongst BW who are often religious. What area do you live in?

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BM here and I'm boot crazy about religion. I value cultural connection and morals.

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M and feel the same. I would say that about half of the women I’ve dated have been “too religious” for my liking. (Obviously nothing wrong with being religious, I’m speaking from a compatibility standpoint)

Sounds like a match 😍🥰

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It’s alot of Black men I know that aren’t religious. Will they want to get married and have a traditional family? Probably harder to find there. If your fine without that then it should be some men you can find.

It’s rarer as a man to find any women that doesn’t believe in Christianity, Islam, African belief system or something. Women tend to be more faith based than men. Men tend to be more logical and work based and can get by without religion.

Most BM are either religious or spiritual, you should date outside your race if you don’t want to worry about religion. You and other races will have your core value of agnosticism be the same at least.

Keep looking. I’m the son of a catholic and an atheist and they’ve been married over 40 years🥰

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