I feel like my team doesn’t like me

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I feel the same way. You are not alone. I think it’s sign of a toxic culture but it’s pervasive.

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What makes you say that? DM me if you need someone to talk to

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Also curious as to why you feel that way. New team?

I am eight months new to the firm

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